Prescription Medications & Your Sex Life

Prescription Medications & Your Sex Life

When the Benefits Come With a Sexual Tradeoff

When the Benefits Come With a Sexual Tradeoff

Sometimes a medication is doing exactly what you hoped it would. Your mood is better, your blood pressure is under control, or you're finally finding it easier to concentrate. But lately, something about sex has felt different.

Sometimes a medication is doing exactly what you hoped it would. Your mood is better, your blood pressure is under control, or you're finally finding it easier to concentrate. But lately, something about sex has felt different.

Maybe you're not as interested as you used to be. Maybe getting hard has become less reliable, or you're enjoying sex just as much as before but suddenly having a much harder time finishing.

Maybe you're not as interested as you used to be. Maybe getting hard has become less reliable, or you're enjoying sex just as much as before but suddenly having a much harder time finishing.

When a Medication Changes How Sex Feels

When a Medication Changes How Sex Feels

Imagine you start taking an antidepressant. A few weeks later, you're feeling less anxious, and everyday life seems a little easier. But when you have sex, something's different. You still want sex. You can get hard without much trouble, and everything feels pretty good. But reaching orgasm takes much longer than it used to. Sometimes you can't finish at all, even though you're enjoying yourself.

Imagine you start taking an antidepressant. A few weeks later, you're feeling less anxious, and everyday life seems a little easier. But when you have sex, something's different. You still want sex. You can get hard without much trouble, and everything feels pretty good. But reaching orgasm takes much longer than it used to. Sometimes you can't finish at all, even though you're enjoying yourself.

Someone else might notice that their erections have become less dependable after starting a new prescription. Or maybe getting hard and finishing aren't a problem, but they're rarely interested in sex anymore. And sometimes the changes are subtler. Getting turned on might take longer, certain kinds of touch might not feel quite as good, or orgasms might seem less intense than they used to.

Someone else might notice that their erections have become less dependable after starting a new prescription. Or maybe getting hard and finishing aren't a problem, but they're rarely interested in sex anymore. And sometimes the changes are subtler. Getting turned on might take longer, certain kinds of touch might not feel quite as good, or orgasms might seem less intense than they used to.

Common Medications That Can Affect Your Sex Life

Common Medications That Can Affect Your Sex Life

Antidepressants are one of the more familiar examples, particularly SSRIs such as sertraline (Zoloft) and escitalopram (Lexapro). They can affect desire and erections, but one of the more common changes is that finishing takes much longer or becomes difficult altogether. Not all antidepressants have the same effects, either. Bupropion (Wellbutrin), for example, tends to cause fewer sexual problems than many SSRIs.

Antidepressants are one of the more familiar examples, particularly SSRIs such as sertraline (Zoloft) and escitalopram (Lexapro). They can affect desire and erections, but one of the more common changes is that finishing takes much longer or becomes difficult altogether. Not all antidepressants have the same effects, either. Bupropion (Wellbutrin), for example, tends to cause fewer sexual problems than many SSRIs.

Blood-pressure medications can create a different set of issues. Some beta-blockers and certain diuretics can make erections less reliable, while other medications used to treat high blood pressure are generally less likely to cause those problems.

Blood-pressure medications can create a different set of issues. Some beta-blockers and certain diuretics can make erections less reliable, while other medications used to treat high blood pressure are generally less likely to cause those problems.

Then there are hair-loss treatments such as finasteride and dutasteride. These can affect sexual desire, erections, or ejaculation in some men, although plenty of people take them without noticing any sexual changes. Some men have also reported sexual symptoms that continued even after stopping finasteride. How often that happens, and why, is still uncertain.

Then there are hair-loss treatments such as finasteride and dutasteride. These can affect sexual desire, erections, or ejaculation in some men, although plenty of people take them without noticing any sexual changes. Some men have also reported sexual symptoms that continued even after stopping finasteride. How often that happens, and why, is still uncertain.

ADHD medications are a little different because their effects can go both ways. Someone who struggles to stay focused during sex might find that treatment makes it easier to stay engaged and enjoy what's happening. But others notice changes in desire, erections, or ejaculation.

ADHD medications are a little different because their effects can go both ways. Someone who struggles to stay focused during sex might find that treatment makes it easier to stay engaged and enjoy what's happening. But others notice changes in desire, erections, or ejaculation.

Why the Connection Isn't Always Obvious

Why the Connection Isn't Always Obvious

Sometimes the timing makes you suspicious right away. You start a new medication, increase your dose, or add another prescription, and something about sex changes not long afterward.

Sometimes the timing makes you suspicious right away. You start a new medication, increase your dose, or add another prescription, and something about sex changes not long afterward.

Other times, it's harder to notice. Maybe the change happened gradually. You were still able to have sex, so you didn't give much thought to the fact that orgasms were taking longer or your desire wasn't quite what it used to be. By the time it started bothering you, the medication had already been part of your routine for months.

Other times, it's harder to notice. Maybe the change happened gradually. You were still able to have sex, so you didn't give much thought to the fact that orgasms were taking longer or your desire wasn't quite what it used to be. By the time it started bothering you, the medication had already been part of your routine for months.

Sometimes the health issue you're taking medication for was affecting your sex life before you even started treatment. Depression can reduce sexual desire on its own. High blood pressure can interfere with erections. And ADHD can affect how easily someone stays engaged during sex. So even when a change seems to line up with a prescription, the medication might not be the only thing involved.

Sometimes the health issue you're taking medication for was affecting your sex life before you even started treatment. Depression can reduce sexual desire on its own. High blood pressure can interfere with erections. And ADHD can affect how easily someone stays engaged during sex. So even when a change seems to line up with a prescription, the medication might not be the only thing involved.

That's why it's useful to think about what sex was like before starting treatment, what changed afterward, and whether anything else was happening around the same time.

That's why it's useful to think about what sex was like before starting treatment, what changed afterward, and whether anything else was happening around the same time.

When You Don't Want to Give Up What's Working

When You Don't Want to Give Up What's Working

It's one thing to suspect that a medication is affecting your sex life. It's another to decide what to do when that same medication is helping you feel considerably better. You might not want to give up the progress you've made, but that doesn't mean you're happy accepting the sexual changes either. Fortunately, those aren't always your only two choices.

It's one thing to suspect that a medication is affecting your sex life. It's another to decide what to do when that same medication is helping you feel considerably better. You might not want to give up the progress you've made, but that doesn't mean you're happy accepting the sexual changes either. Fortunately, those aren't always your only two choices.

Depending on the medication and why you're taking it, your doctor may be able to adjust the dose, switch you to something less likely to affect sex, or address the sexual side effect directly. If your erections have become less reliable, Viagra or Cialis might help without requiring you to stop the original medication. But sometimes the prescription you're taking really is the best option for your health, even if it's affecting your sex life.

Depending on the medication and why you're taking it, your doctor may be able to adjust the dose, switch you to something less likely to affect sex, or address the sexual side effect directly. If your erections have become less reliable, Viagra or Cialis might help without requiring you to stop the original medication. But sometimes the prescription you're taking really is the best option for your health, even if it's affecting your sex life.

If you think something you're taking is affecting your sex life, it's worth talking to whoever prescribed it before making changes yourself. Skipping a few doses might seem like an easy way to see whether things improve, but abruptly stopping certain medications can cause withdrawal symptoms or other health problems. Tell them exactly what's changed sexually and how much the medication is helping otherwise. Both sides of that experience matter when you're figuring out what to do next.

If you think something you're taking is affecting your sex life, it's worth talking to whoever prescribed it before making changes yourself. Skipping a few doses might seem like an easy way to see whether things improve, but abruptly stopping certain medications can cause withdrawal symptoms or other health problems. Tell them exactly what's changed sexually and how much the medication is helping otherwise. Both sides of that experience matter when you're figuring out what to do next.