Recreational Substances & Your Sex Life
Recreational Substances & Your Sex Life
How Different Drugs Can Change the Experience of Sex
How Different Drugs Can Change the Experience of Sex
Maybe you've gotten high and found that touch suddenly feels different. Or taken something that made you feel unusually close to someone, even though getting hard or reaching orgasm wasn't as easy as you'd expected.
Maybe you've gotten high and found that touch suddenly feels different. Or taken something that made you feel unusually close to someone, even though getting hard or reaching orgasm wasn't as easy as you'd expected.
Recreational drugs can change a lot more than whether you can get an erection or finish. They can influence how you experience pleasure, where your attention goes, how connected you feel to another person, and even whether sex sounds appealing in the first place.
Recreational drugs can change a lot more than whether you can get an erection or finish. They can influence how you experience pleasure, where your attention goes, how connected you feel to another person, and even whether sex sounds appealing in the first place.
We're not encouraging anyone to use these drugs. Some are illegal, and the risks can be serious. But people do use them during sex, and it's worth understanding what those experiences can actually be like.
We're not encouraging anyone to use these drugs. Some are illegal, and the risks can be serious. But people do use them during sex, and it's worth understanding what those experiences can actually be like.
How Cannabis Can Change the Experience of Sex
How Cannabis Can Change the Experience of Sex
For some people, cannabis makes sex more enjoyable. Touch might feel more interesting, you might feel more relaxed or playful, or you might find yourself getting completely absorbed in what's happening. But for others, getting high can make sex feel surprisingly complicated. You might become distracted by things you wouldn't normally notice, start overthinking what your body is doing, or find yourself struggling to stay engaged.
For some people, cannabis makes sex more enjoyable. Touch might feel more interesting, you might feel more relaxed or playful, or you might find yourself getting completely absorbed in what's happening. But for others, getting high can make sex feel surprisingly complicated. You might become distracted by things you wouldn't normally notice, start overthinking what your body is doing, or find yourself struggling to stay engaged.
And even when you're enjoying yourself more, that doesn't necessarily mean your erections will be better. You might feel hornier and enjoy physical sensations more while still having a harder time getting fully hard or reaching orgasm.
And even when you're enjoying yourself more, that doesn't necessarily mean your erections will be better. You might feel hornier and enjoy physical sensations more while still having a harder time getting fully hard or reaching orgasm.
How much you've used can make a difference, too. Being a little high can feel very different from being so high that you're having trouble following what's happening. The research doesn't point in one clear direction, either. Studies have linked cannabis use to both greater sexual enjoyment and erection difficulties, without establishing that cannabis itself caused either outcome.
How much you've used can make a difference, too. Being a little high can feel very different from being so high that you're having trouble following what's happening. The research doesn't point in one clear direction, either. Studies have linked cannabis use to both greater sexual enjoyment and erection difficulties, without establishing that cannabis itself caused either outcome.
Psychedelics: When the Experience Itself Changes
Psychedelics: When the Experience Itself Changes
Psychedelics such as LSD (acid) and psilocybin, the main psychedelic compound in magic mushrooms, can take changes in perception much further. Touch might feel unusually intense, time can seem to move differently, and familiar sensations may suddenly feel completely unfamiliar.
Psychedelics such as LSD (acid) and psilocybin, the main psychedelic compound in magic mushrooms, can take changes in perception much further. Touch might feel unusually intense, time can seem to move differently, and familiar sensations may suddenly feel completely unfamiliar.
For some people, that can make physical intimacy feel unusually meaningful or emotionally profound. For others, sex might not seem particularly interesting at all. You could be so absorbed in what you're experiencing that the idea of having sex barely crosses your mind. Or the sensations might feel overwhelming, confusing, or difficult to enjoy.
For some people, that can make physical intimacy feel unusually meaningful or emotionally profound. For others, sex might not seem particularly interesting at all. You could be so absorbed in what you're experiencing that the idea of having sex barely crosses your mind. Or the sensations might feel overwhelming, confusing, or difficult to enjoy.
And because psychedelics can affect how you perceive yourself, other people, and what's happening around you, they can also make communication more complicated. Someone who's severely impaired or unable to understand what's happening can't meaningfully consent to sexual activity.
And because psychedelics can affect how you perceive yourself, other people, and what's happening around you, they can also make communication more complicated. Someone who's severely impaired or unable to understand what's happening can't meaningfully consent to sexual activity.
MDMA, Cocaine, & Other Stimulants
MDMA, Cocaine, & Other Stimulants
MDMA, often called molly or ecstasy, is particularly interesting because of how it can change someone's emotional experience of intimacy. You might feel unusually affectionate, comfortable being vulnerable, or intensely connected to someone you're with. Physical touch can feel incredibly rewarding, even when sex itself isn't necessarily the goal.
MDMA, often called molly or ecstasy, is particularly interesting because of how it can change someone's emotional experience of intimacy. You might feel unusually affectionate, comfortable being vulnerable, or intensely connected to someone you're with. Physical touch can feel incredibly rewarding, even when sex itself isn't necessarily the goal.
But wanting to be close to someone and being physically ready for sex aren't always the same thing. MDMA can make erections more difficult and delay orgasm, even when sexual interest is high. Some people also report that orgasms feel unusually intense when they do happen.
But wanting to be close to someone and being physically ready for sex aren't always the same thing. MDMA can make erections more difficult and delay orgasm, even when sexual interest is high. Some people also report that orgasms feel unusually intense when they do happen.
Cocaine and stimulants such as meth can bring a different kind of intensity. Someone might feel unusually energized, confident, sexually driven, or less inhibited than usual. Sex might feel more exciting or urgent, and some people find themselves pursuing it for much longer than they normally would. But erections and orgasm can become less predictable, even when desire remains high.
Cocaine and stimulants such as meth can bring a different kind of intensity. Someone might feel unusually energized, confident, sexually driven, or less inhibited than usual. Sex might feel more exciting or urgent, and some people find themselves pursuing it for much longer than they normally would. But erections and orgasm can become less predictable, even when desire remains high.
These drugs can also put considerable strain on the heart and blood vessels, while intoxication can make it harder to recognize risks or make clear decisions about sex.
These drugs can also put considerable strain on the heart and blood vessels, while intoxication can make it harder to recognize risks or make clear decisions about sex.
Opioids, Benzodiazepines, & Other Downers
Opioids, Benzodiazepines, & Other Downers
Not every recreational drug makes someone feel more energetic or sexually interested. Some create feelings of warmth, relaxation, or detachment that change the experience in a completely different way.
Not every recreational drug makes someone feel more energetic or sexually interested. Some create feelings of warmth, relaxation, or detachment that change the experience in a completely different way.
Opioids, including heroin and painkillers such as oxycodone, can dull physical discomfort and create a sense of calm or euphoria. But that same numbing effect can also make sexual sensations less intense, reduce desire, or make getting hard and reaching orgasm more difficult. Using opioids regularly can also lower testosterone levels over time, potentially affecting sexual desire and erections even when you're not high.
Opioids, including heroin and painkillers such as oxycodone, can dull physical discomfort and create a sense of calm or euphoria. But that same numbing effect can also make sexual sensations less intense, reduce desire, or make getting hard and reaching orgasm more difficult. Using opioids regularly can also lower testosterone levels over time, potentially affecting sexual desire and erections even when you're not high.
Benzodiazepines such as Xanax or Valium can also reduce anxiety and inhibition. Someone might feel less self-conscious about sex, but also become sleepy, detached, or less aware of what's happening. At higher levels of intoxication, memory and judgment can become significantly impaired.
Benzodiazepines such as Xanax or Valium can also reduce anxiety and inhibition. Someone might feel less self-conscious about sex, but also become sleepy, detached, or less aware of what's happening. At higher levels of intoxication, memory and judgment can become significantly impaired.
There's also a serious risk when these substances are combined. Taking opioids with benzodiazepines or alcohol can dangerously slow breathing and lead to a fatal overdose.
There's also a serious risk when these substances are combined. Taking opioids with benzodiazepines or alcohol can dangerously slow breathing and lead to a fatal overdose.
What About Alcohol & Nicotine?
What About Alcohol & Nicotine?
Alcohol and nicotine don't always come to mind when people think about recreational drugs, but they can affect sex, too.
Alcohol and nicotine don't always come to mind when people think about recreational drugs, but they can affect sex, too.
Alcohol is a familiar example of something that can make sex feel easier socially while making it more difficult physically. A few drinks might leave you feeling confident and less self-conscious, but getting fully hard or reaching orgasm can become more difficult as you drink more. Regular heavy drinking can also contribute to longer-term sexual problems.
Alcohol is a familiar example of something that can make sex feel easier socially while making it more difficult physically. A few drinks might leave you feeling confident and less self-conscious, but getting fully hard or reaching orgasm can become more difficult as you drink more. Regular heavy drinking can also contribute to longer-term sexual problems.
Nicotine is a little different because its effects on sex may be less noticeable in the moment. Smoking, vaping, or using nicotine pouches might make you feel more alert or stimulated without any obvious change in your erections. But nicotine also affects your blood vessels and circulation.
Nicotine is a little different because its effects on sex may be less noticeable in the moment. Smoking, vaping, or using nicotine pouches might make you feel more alert or stimulated without any obvious change in your erections. But nicotine also affects your blood vessels and circulation.
Cigarette smoking has a well-established connection to erectile dysfunction. Vaping has also been associated with erection difficulties in some studies, although the evidence is less definitive. And we still have relatively little research on the longer-term sexual effects of nicotine pouches.
Cigarette smoking has a well-established connection to erectile dysfunction. Vaping has also been associated with erection difficulties in some studies, although the evidence is less definitive. And we still have relatively little research on the longer-term sexual effects of nicotine pouches.
Essays on Recreational Substances & Your Sex Life
Essays on Recreational Substances & Your Sex Life
Can Pre-Workout Affect Your Sex Life?
Pre-workout can change how sex feels depending on how stimulating the formula is, when you take it, and whether its ingredients leave you energized or overly wired.
Why Does Alcohol Cause "Whiskey Dick"?
Alcohol can interfere with getting or staying hard even when you still feel turned on, because desire and erection quality don’t always move together.
What Nicotine Changes That Most People Don’t Notice
Nicotine can affect blood flow and nervous-system activity even without smoke. Here's what that may mean for your erections and why pouches deserve their own context.
Does Vaping Cause ED?
Daily vaping has been linked with ED, but the connection isn't simple. Nicotine and vape aerosol may both affect the blood vessels erections depend on.
Does Cannabis Affect Erections?
Cannabis can make sex more enjoyable while making erections less predictable, and your own pattern may tell you more than any blanket claim about weed and ED.
Can Poppers Affect Your Erections?
Poppers can lower your blood pressure enough to make it harder to stay hard even when you’re still completely turned on.
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